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Enquiry · Screening · Confirmation

Reserve

Tell me who you are, and what you have in mind.

Prefer to write? WhatsApp or [email protected] reaches me directly. A line or two about you and what you have in mind is the perfect start.

The form gathers everything I need in one go, so we skip a round of questions. If you’d rather write, my email is at the top of this page.

Who you are

so I know who I’m writing back to.

Screening

required · one route, two welcome

Every first booking is screened, and only once. Your screening details are seen only by me and deleted the day after our date. Choose one route below, or two if you’d like things to move a little faster.

My email is held in an encrypted mailbox that only I can read. If you’d like our messages password-protected too, just ask.

Screening route

Second screening route

The date

date and time are optional

How you found me

where our paths first crossed. If you can’t recall, ‘I don’t remember’ will do.

Tell me about yourself

a little about you, your interests, and what you’re hoping for.

Before you send

a quick check that you are a real person

Sent to [email protected]. You’ll hear from me, usually the same day.

Screening

Do I need to be screened before we meet?

Every first booking is screened, and only once. Your screening details are seen only by me and deleted the day after our date. One route is enough, though two are always welcome. The first booking is careful, and after that it is simply a message and a date.

Photo ID

Government-issued photo identification, meaning a passport, an official identity card or a driving licence, with your address obscured. This route is open to everyone, first booking or fifth.

Companion references

A reference from a companion you’ve seen in the last six months.

LinkedIn or employment

Send your first message from your work email, with a link to your company and to your LinkedIn profile. The email address should clearly belong to the company you work for. If you run your own business, your company’s website does the same job.

P411

I am on P411, which many of my American guests already use. If you have an account, give me your P411 details when you write and that takes care of screening in one step. If you do not, there are other ways, and none of them are difficult.

Leave No Trace

For a small number of gentlemen whose position means no digital record is possible. It’s by arrangement only, and it’s screening in a different form, not an alternative to it: I meet a trusted representative of yours in person, and a non-disclosure agreement is available. If this applies to you, mention it when you first get in touch and I’ll let you know whether it can be arranged.

How is my information kept?

My email is held in an encrypted mailbox that only I can read. If you’d like our messages password-protected too, just ask.

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